The word “but” is the enemy.
“But” limits our thinking, “But” limits creativity, “But” shuts people down.
Everything before a “but” is negated. “I really like your idea but…” just says I really don’t like your idea.
Find opportunities to replace the word “but” with “and”.
For example: “I really like your idea and I was thinking…” says I hear you and appreciate your perspective, here’s my contribution to your thought.
This allows for open dialogue without negating the other person’s perspective.